Both guys who did this also cheated on me. Eventually, they’d snap and start yelling at me for hating them because they didn’t earn enough money or said that I wasn’t loyal, despite the fact that I was usually the one paying the bills and being open about everything. They put themselves to such high standards, they were impossible to keep up with. Then, some of them just went off the deep end. To guys who had this issue, I wasn’t a person but a sex trophy instead. Time after time, each guy would ask me to set up a threesome, talk him up, or talk about his sex skills in front of his friends. At first it was flattering but then I started to realize that they may not actually care about me as a person, only the ego boost that came with dating me.
Others would be so thrilled about dating a slender person that they’d start to parade me around like a show pony. They would start to project their own insecurities onto me, which would lead them to telling me to lose weight, stop “dressing slutty,” and stop wearing hair a certain way “so other guys would get hot” for me. Some would start begging me for reassurance that they were attractive, and yes, I’d tell them so. When flirting and chatting with ladies o the site, you can use words like sexy, beautiful, hot, and other enticing words to make women feel good about themselves. They want to be adored and valued for who they are. I’m talking, of course, about their body image hang-ups. Only Lads is a great place to meet hot gay and bi guys in Ohio. Most women hate to be labeled as fat even when they are fully aware that they are fat.
